THE AMEN CORNER
One
morning I was having a confrontation with our grandson Michael concerning
removing garbage from the kitchen to the trash cans outside. My wife although
in full agreement with my directive, just stood there and said nothing. As soon
as Michael disappeared out the back door, I proceeded to suggest to her that
every parent and grandparent needs an AMEN corner. Then I proceeded to explain
what I meant.
I
told her about the old Baptist preacher who deliberately placed about a half
dozen of his best supporters in a corner of the log cabin church. The mission
of these sympathizers was to echo agreement when the preacher would make a real
good point. Both individually and collectively they would say,
"AMEN!" This was called "the AMEN Corner."
She
smiled! And, I continued, to make my point. Suppose an army captain is
addressing a fighting platoon. He says, "Men, we're going to take that
hill from the enemy and we're going to do it regardless of the cost. Good
luck!" Then the first sergeant saluted the Captain and immediately turned
to face the group saying, "Hey you guys! You heard the man. . . let's get
moving!" I said to her, in this case the first sergeant is the AMEN
Corner.
Another
example! Think back to the old John Wayne cowboy movies. Picture a cattle drive
from Tucson to Albuquerque about to begin. We can almost hear the Duke saying
to all the cowboys just before the drive begins, "Men, it's going to be
rough and we've got a long way to go. We may see Indians and some of us aren't
going to make it. But, we've got to get these cattle to Albuquerque in 45 days.
We've got a job to do and we're gonna do it."
Then I
reminded her of the Walter Brennan type character who would spit out a chaw of
tobacco and say, "You heard the boss! Let's get crackin'." I said Walter
Brennan is John Wayne's AMEN Corner.
Then she
reminded me of an old TV series entitled "Rawhide." She said she
remembered a character named Rowdy played by Clint Eastwood. She said he was
called the ramrod of the outfit.
I said,
that's exactly what I'm talking about. The ramrod is the AMEN Corner. And in a
family both parents need reinforcement from each other. So when I say to
Michael, "You must take out the garbage." Then you need to back me
up, be my AMEN corner and say, "Michael, your grand daddy is absolutely
right. You heard the man, now get with the program and take out the
garbage."
It
occurred to me that lack of parental support, one parent for the other can be
one contributing factor to a dysfunctional family. Often all that's needed to
put a family back together again is a simple "amen corner" where the
wife amens the father and the father amens the wife. What child can stand
against not one but two adults? What a powerful and unified force! He has to
conform.
What
does Amen means anyway? Perhaps the best definition is found in Bakers
Dictionary of Theology. The original Hebrew word meant "reliable, sure,
true." But, the related verb "Ah Mane" means, "to support,
sustain, or to prove oneself; steady, reliable, loyal, etc. Perhaps better
known to most of us are the English words "so be it." Or maybe
"Yes indeed!" Professor Strong assigned the number 539 to the verb
"Ah Mane." And Strong agrees with Baker on the definition, which is
to "build up or support."
And we
sure want to point this out. This may shock you a little. It did me. But AMEN
is pronounced the same in Hebrew, Greek, and English. And in all three of those
languages AMEN means the same exact thing.
The
word AMEN is used in over 150 verses for a total of nearly 200 times in both
the old and new testaments. And, without exception it is used in the sense of
"Yes, indeed" or "Believe, for these words are true." Or
"Complete agreement with what another is saying." And WHO is God's
AMEN? Who always AMENS God the Father? We find the answer in Revelation 3:14.
Here our Lord Jesus Christ identifies Himself as "The Amen., the
Faithful and True Witness." So with this thought in mind, we can easily
see how Jesus Christ is God's AMEN corner.
Now in
just a moment we want to make three main points. But before we do there is a
negative aspect to AMENNING. Maybe some of you will remember a talk we gave a
few years ago on the subject of "Toe Tapping." We pointed out that
there are those who may be in agreement with what another party is saying. But
at the same time the listener may choose to remain silent, even anonymous. The
reason for this silence may be that they are SECRETLY in agreement but don't
want to speak out. We called this behavior "toe tapping" like someone
does when they hear music played or sung. They may not be singing but they may
be tapping their toes to the music, in this case, the subject matter of the
speaker.
Actually,
a "Toe Tapper" is just the opposite of an "Amener." An
"Amener" is one who by saying "AMEN" is not only agreeing
with the speaker, but in addition he is sticking out his neck too. This is how
an "Amener" is just the opposite of a toe tapper. A toe tapper does
not stick his neck out even though he is in agreement. It's like a form of
cowardice.
Jesus
called himself "The Amen" for He amened everything the Father said.
He called himself the AMEN in Revelation 3:14. He said, "I am the Amen,
the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God."
When
Jesus selected His disciples, they became His "amen corner." They not
only agreed with everything our Lord said, but by doing so they stuck their own
necks out. In fact, some of our Lord's disciples were actually beheaded because
they "amened" our Lord Jesus Christ.
These
faithful followers were quick to sing His praises and echo His words and to
teach that which they were taught. There were certainly no toe tappers there.
The book
of Acts is replete with examples of how the apostles "amened" both
our Lord Jesus Christ and God the Father. There are many examples of individuals
who amened our Lord. Now, please keep all this in mind as we consider three
points. Point Number 1, the family AMEN corner.
Mother
says, "Jamie Boy needs to start his homework." Dad says, "He
doesn't need to do that right now. He is watching his favorite TV show."
It's
this sort of thing that teaches young Jamie Boy that his parents are divided on
what action he is required to take. One says, "Start the homework
NOW!" The other says, "No he doesn't need to do that right now. . .
he can wait a while.
Oh, you
say, no harm is done. Maybe not from just one episode, but let's go to the next
day. Mom says, "Jamie Boy, I want you to clean up your room." Dad
says, "Now honey, you know how boys are. You should have seen my room when
I was his age."
Hey, what's
happening here? If we were to analyze these statements and hundreds of others
like them we would learn that Jamie Boy is getting an entirely different
message from the one intended. He hears one parent bossing him around and
telling him to do certain things right now.
From his
Mom he discerns a sense of urgency in her demands. The room, the homework, she
wants it done now. And since Jamie Boy doesn't want to do it now, maybe not
even at all, he sees his mom as an opponent to his freedom, while dad comes
across an ally, someone in his corner; someone who is amening his feelings, his
desires, his wishes.
One
parent says, "YES", the other says "NO". One says,
"OK", the other says "Maybe". Is this oneness? Of course
not. Oneness is complete agreement in action, word and deed. What one does the
other will do the same way. Jesus said He and the Father are One. And He also
said a man and wife are ONE.
This
kind of thing can start off simple, but it can get out of hand. Agreement must
take place. A husband and wife must be one. To disagree on what brand of tooth
paste to buy and that sort of thing is not the issue. Two tubes can be bought
or compromises can be made on such simple things. But the main issue is AMEN
agreement, oneness.
Then
there's the lessons taught by so called parental guidance. Let's say both
parents are watching a movie that's unfit for Jamie Boy. It's unfit for Jamie
Boy because of its language or nudity or violence. The movie makers would have
us believe that it's OK for adults to watch such as this but that children
shouldn't.
But the
lesson taught to Jamie Boy is that the content of the movie is OK the only
problem is age. So it will be OK for Jamie Boy to watch nudity violence and
hear profanity just as soon as he gets old enough. 'Therefore, he longs for the
day when he will be old enough to see these OK things.
What
about his parents! How do they handle such nudity and violence and language?
Invariably we find words creeping into their vocabulary that are heard on the
silver screen. Do we see more sexual promiscuity among adults than in past
decades? Certainly since both parents are watching the movie, they are in AMEN
agreement with each other on this issue. But, wouldn't it be better if Mom and
Dad didn't watch certain movies at all, not only for Jamie Boy's benefit, but
for their own as well. In this way, the intended message would come across
properly.
It would
have been better if they had amened the lessons throughout the Bible which
teach, abstinence, purity of thought, raise up a child in the way he should go,
etc. etc.?
Now do
you think I am naive enough to think for one moment that TV sets all over town
owned by those in this room will suddenly be silenced? NO indeed! And that's
not what we're saying anyway. What we are saying is "Don't be a hypocrite.
Don't teach one thing to your children and do the opposite thing
yourself."
And, in
addition we are saying that to be in AMEN agreement on the wrong things is just
as wrong as NOT being in AMEN AGREEMENT on simpler things like homework, etc.
I
honestly believe that if a list could be made of all the problem areas in the
home, in the family, etc. this issue of AMEN agreement would come very close to
the top of the list. It may be triggered by financial hardship, or
entertainment, or something else, but it's incompatibility anyway you put the
pencil to it. When there is no AMEN there is no oneness. When there is no
oneness there is no compatibility. When there is no compatibility there is a
dysfunctional family, one headed for problems, trouble, and maybe even
dissolvement.
Number
2. God's AMEN Corner.
We've
already pointed out that Jesus declared that He was THE AMEN. THE Amen! This
implies that our Lord Jesus Christ is the AMENER of AMENERS. He is the one who
always supports the Father in every way. Jesus said many times words to the
effect that He does what the Father taught Him to do. He does the Fathers will,
He is in agreement with the Father. "Whatsoever my father says do, that I
do."
There
can be no question just how and to what extent Jesus is THE AMEN. The Faithful
and True Witness. But, one may wonder, "Does God have any other AMENERS
besides Jesus? Certainly He does for everyone who amens Jesus is Amening God.
So who AMENS Jesus?
Certainly
the Apostles head the list. There is no question that they were in our Lord's AMEN
Corner. And so were the rest of His disciples. For after all what is a disciple
if he is not an AMENER?
Jesus
supported God and the Disciples supported Jesus and Jesus supported the
apostles in return. It's like a full circle, isn't it?
And one
more quick point. Keep in mind the Scripture that says clearly that the Holy
Spirit of God is an AMENER. Consider Romans 8:16 in this light. It says:
"The
Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of
God:"
Here we
see the Holy Spirit doing an AMEN.
But what
about those individuals of the Church? What about you and me? Do we amen our
Father? Remember that the only way to Amen the Father is to Amen His Son.
So, do
we Amen Jesus when we shake a fist at a traffic light when someone fails to
stop just right? Did out Lord ever shake His fist? I don't think so.
Do we
Amen our Lord when we try to get even with someone who has wronged us. Suppose
your next door neighbor has a big oak tree that dumps leaves all over creation.
Then the wind blows them all over in your yard.
And to
make it worse, he does absolutely nothing about it. You know that if those
leaves get raked up, you are the one who will have to do it.
How do
you feel about this? You don't like it, so you stressfully and angrily get those
leaves up. And all the time you are raking these leaves you are secretly
harboring inside of you a special kind of anger for your neighbor. Is this
attitude; is this feeling of yours, a proper AMEN to our Lords command to love
thy neighbor as thyself?
At work,
do we Amen our Lord when we say terrible things about the boss. Suppose the
Boss says, "Everyone in the office or plant, including me, has to work Christmas
day." He explains that certain new procedures must be installed before
the next business day that can't be installed until after Christmas EVE.
Would
you say ugly things about him to coworkers during the next coffee break? Would
you really cut him down when you got home when trying to get the family to
understand why you won't be home on Christmas day?
Maybe,
just maybe....someone above him (his boss) had made this decision and your boss
was merely AMENING his boss. Certainly one can have respect for this, can't we.
Jesus
addressed a situation like this when he said if someone compels you to go one
mile, then go with him two miles. To which we add the thought go those two
miles without complaining. Do we really AMEN our LORD on a regular basis?
Look,
we're not talking sin here....we're talking about being in amen agreement with
the AMEN. We are saying that we must AMEN our Lord Jesus Christ who always
AMENS the Father.
Jesus
asked us to be his disciples and to follow Him. And He said that where two or
three are gathered together in His name there he is also.
To my
way of thinking, Jesus was saying that one person cannot AMEN himself. But,
when TWO are gathered together in His name (And Jesus is THE AMEN), and if they
are in agreement with each other, then the Lord Jesus Christ is there too, for
He is the AMEN.
Our Lord
said it so plainly in Matt 18:19:
"Again,
I tell you that if two of you on earth agree (AMEN) about anything you ask for,
it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."
AMEN
indicates Appreciation! AMEN indicates Support!
Yes,
Jesus Christ is THE AMEN. He has always been the AMEN corner for GOD the
Father. And we are the AMEN corner for our Lord Jesus Christ.
Point #3
-- The AMEN corner for the Church.
Now in
the old Baptist Church where the amen corner originated, the idea was to build
up or support. To "amen" was the same as saying, "You're right
preacher, and we want to go on record as not only agreeing with you but
hopefully our influence will help others to see the point you are making.
The idea
is one of support; to defend, back-up, foster, strengthen, stick up for, to
second, to uphold, reinforce, sanction, favor, substantiate, corroborate,
attest to; and finally to encourage.
But,
remember we are dealing with individuals because the Church is composed of
individuals. Unfortunately there are so many in every Church in every city that
are toe tappers. All too often a would-be champion AMENER is only a toe tapper.
Maybe he lacks courage to speak up.
In
Psalms 106:48, David said, "Blessed be the Lord God of Israel from
everlasting to everlasting: and let all the people say, Amen. Praise ye the
Lord."
David
was asking the congregation to agree with him that the God of Israel who is
from everlasting to everlasting is worthy of praise. And he asked them to agree
with him by saying "AMEN."
There
are many references in our Bible giving examples of how both small and large
congregations AMENED the word of the Lord.
In Ezra
10:12 we read, "Then all the congregation answered and said with a loud
voice, As thou hast said, so must we do." That's an amen corner, anyway
one puts the pencil to it.
According
to the prophet Nehemiah in chapter 5 and verse 13, we read of how the
congregation agreed with the Lord's reprimands. Nehemiah told them that God
would shake out of his house and possessions every man who does not keep the
promise they had just made. He said, "So may such a man be shaken out and
emptied!" And all the congregation said, "Amen," and praised the
Lord.
In I
Chronicles 16:36 it says, ". . . Then all the people said "Amen"
and "Praise the Lord."
II
Corinthians 1:20 says:
For no
matter how many promises God has made, they are "Yes" in Christ. And
so through him, the "Amen", is spoken by us to the glory of God.
In order
for any congregation of the Lords people to be pleasing to the Father there
must be a certain amount of unity.
Now by
unity, we're NOT talking about a small AMEN corner composed of one or two with
deep penetrating voices that seem to carry a lot of weight.
And
neither are we talking about a congregation of Toe Tappers; that is, those who
may agree on some things, but are afraid to speak out. So they just tap their
toes to the music, so to speak.
And
neither are we talking about the BENCH WARMERS. A bench warmer by my definition
is one who goes to Church primarily to be seen, not to actively participate.
He wants
others to say I saw you in Church. He wants to be able to say he went. And for
these, just the act of going to Church gives the bench warmer a special
cleansing.
No,
UNITY is something else entirely. Church members should never forget that the
elders, trustees, ministers and other church officials have been duly elected
by the congregation. Yet, the congregation includes that small group of loud
mouth AMENERS, as well as the toe tappers, and "bench warmers."
Unity is
something else. So if things are not going to suit you, first of all make sure
you yourself have the right heart attitude. Make sure that you yourself are in
AMEN agreement with Jesus Christ. Are you, in fact, AMENING our Lord. If you
can say yes to these things, then by all means proceed to make your points in a
positive way in the congregation.
Remember
the words of our Lord Who said:
"Why
do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention
to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the
speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You
hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see
clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye (Mat. 7:3-5).
Can we
say AMEN to that?
And can
you say AMEN to the absolute necessity for AMEN agreement in the home?
And what
about the need for oneness in the Church; agreement with those whom you place
in charge? If you agree with this, please give me one more AMEN.
May the
Lord add His blessing to our study of His word.
Charles Aldridge